Back in May, my husband lost his job and we’ve held a tenuous grip on things while he searches for a new one. My recently widowed cousin also lost his job when Chrysler received their bail out money then shut down the factory to send the jobs to Mexico.
In the week before Christmas, my uncle was hospitalized for circulation issues, had a bypass and ended up with a raging infection from the hospital. My sister-in-law was hospitalized briefly while they tried to determine what was causing her symptoms. My paternal grandmother was out shaking a rug when she was suddenly hit with a dizzy spell and took a header off the porch landing on her head and received compression fractures of her cervical spine. My maternal grandmother had an unfortunate meeting with a tow truck but fortunately, the only damage was to her car.
I know we’re not the only ones to have suffered the bad. A dear friend lost her uncle on Christmas day, my brother’s wife lost an aunt on Christmas Eve. My best friend has a family member who suffered a mental illness total break down. One of my closest friends is going through a painful separation and probably divorce. Another friend lost her husband to cancer…yet another to another woman…
Others I know have also suffered losses of spouses, children, parents, and other loved ones. It seems as if we look back we can always see the bad things that have occurred.
But how often do we reflect on over the good?
You’d think with all the bad things we’ve experienced I would have a hard time seeing the good. But you know what? It IS there. Buried in the bog, barely visible there are good things in there as well.
Aside from my recent releases, I managed to wring blood from a turnip…errr I mean write three new books!
But more than that—I still have my husband, we still have our home, our daughter is recovered from her recent illness, we learned there will be a new baby joining the family in April. My parents got their farm! My grandmother is not as lonely as she’s been for years because she was given a cat. I had a cousin return safely from Afghanistan!
I have the knowledge that my best friend is merely a phone call away. My parents are a phone call away as well! My husband is still living and healthy (of course the way he pushes on my last nerve this is a fluctuating state…;) ) AND he had a job interview this week--yesterday actually!
Plus, I have the best readers in the world! I have received notes, emails and messages from people who have told me how much they enjoy my work. The notes always seem to appear just when my day looks the darkest.
So while 2009 was a bleak and depressing year, and I am very THRILLED it’s passing by the way, I have to say it did have some pretty good points.
I’m looking to 2010 with hope for health and prosperity for not just myself and my family but for all of us. May 2010 be the year that gives us enough…
“I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright. I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more. I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive. I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger. I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting. I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess. I wish enough "Hello's" to get you through the final "Good-bye." *Bob Perks, in Chicken Soup For the Grieving Soul
May you live as long as you want, And never want as long as you live
May your glass be ever full. May the roof over your head be always strong. And may you be in heaven half an hour before the devil knows you're dead.
May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face. May the rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand.
I’ll see y’all in 2010!
Hugz
Donica


















